What will happen at a RIMeetUp event? 

 You will arrive at the event location and be given a name tag upon sign in. There will be a fifteen minute session for you to mingle with others, grab a drink, so you will be ready for your quick dates.
You will sit down with another single for 4 minutes until the buzzer sounds. At that time you will meet with a new single for 4 minutes.  At the end of the quick dates there will be appetizers and more time to mingle with the other singles from the event.

Do I need to give my information that night?

We do not allow singles to give their information that night.  This helps to keep the event casual and comfortable.  At the end of the event you will write down whom you would like to meet with. If that individual also writes down your name, than it’s a match.  We will share only the contact information you supplied to them, and their information will be given to you.

What if I don't meet anyone?

If you do not meet anyone you would like to see again the next event is on us.  We guarantee that you will meet someone you would like to see again or the next event is free.

What if I'm really shy about meeting people?

RIMeetUp is a fun, no pressure environment that makes it easy for single men and women to meet.  If you still feel like you will be uncomfortable with a face-to-face meeting with the opposite sex contact RIMeetUp, because we can help. Connect@RIMeetUP.com

I only have 4 minutes for each quick date?

That’s right, just 4 comfortable, no pressure, enjoyable minutes with someone from the opposite sex.   Studies have shown that upon meeting someone a deeper than physical attraction with someone happens within a few minutes.  Seven minutes will give people a chance to get to know the other person and build a relationship or new friendship.

What are some suggestions for people going to this event for the first time?

• Try to be casual, yet interesting and engaging, since you only have 7 minutes.
  
• Listen and respond. And when you respond, try to connect it with the topic that was just said. This will make the conversation more interesting and it’s a great way to find out the things you have in common.  
• Make eye contact but don’t stare at him/her thus making them uncomfortable.
  
• Try not to ask yes or no questions because that will usually lead to a dead end. 
• If a moment gets silent, talk about anything (i.e. favorite vacation spot, hobbies, or what you would do if you could do anything).
• Don’t criticize anything he/she says.
• If you are not interested in whom you are talking, please be respectful and don’t blow him/her off. You might find out that you have a lot in common.
• Feel good about yourself and always be positive, and your date will feel good about you.
• Do not over-dress, business casual for men and women will do.
• Last but most important, HAVE FUN!

Contact RIMeetUp for more information on how you can sign up.